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Meditation Guidelines

These guidelines apply to all of the meditations offered on this website.  They will also be useful for anyone who is finding their own way to meditate and wants an easy, natural meditation style.
How long to meditate
When to meditate
Thoughts in meditation
Falling asleep in meditation
Strong emotions
Different postures affect how the energy flows through the body and how alert the mind is in meditation.  For most meditations, we suggest sitting upright with the spine erect while still being comfortable.  It is not necessary to get into a precise or difficult posture to meditate!  If you are uncomfortable or straining to be in a certain position, you will not be able to relax completely.  Some meditations, such as our Walking Meditation, are done while active.
How long to meditate
Usually 15-30 minutes is a good meditation time, although if you are new to meditation, you may want to start with 5 or 10 and build up.  If you meditate regularly, it can be helpful to meditate about the same number of minutes each time.  (An exception is our Meditation-in-Action which is done for longer periods of time while engaged in activity.)

When to meditate
When you meditate will partly depend on what kind of meditation you are doing and the purpose of the meditation.  Although you can meditate at any time, the ideal times are usually in the morning as a start to your day, or in the late afternoon in order to unwind from the activity of the day and be refreshed for the evening.  If you do a meditation which energizes you, it's better not to do it before bedtime!  Meditations which are deeply relaxing are best done on an empty stomach or at least a couple of hours after a meal.
Thoughts in meditation 
Thoughts arise spontaneously in the mind.  They are a natural part of meditation.  The goal of meditation is to become more at ease, relaxed and at peace with whatever is happening.  Therefore, it is important to not resist anything that comes in meditation, including thoughts.
Don't try to push out thoughts or resist them.  Simply notice that thoughts are present and let them go the way they come -- effortlessly.  When you find that the awareness has been caught up in a train of thought, easily come back to the focus of your meditation.  (This will vary depending on the type of meditation you are doing.  In a breath meditation, for example, come easily back to the experience of the breath.)
It's important to understand that you have not made a mistake when thoughts come or the mind has become absorbed in thought.  It's a natural part of meditation.  The mind may get caught up in a "story" about what is happening in our life, or even what is happening in meditation -- what has happened or will happen.  Likewise, we can let go of that.  Don't purposely follow the train of thought.  Let it go.  Let go of the meaning of thoughts.  Let thoughts be a meaningless activity in the mind!
Our experience of thoughts may change as we meditate.
As we disengage the gears of the mind, the mind has an opportunity to settle down.  We may experience more subtle levels of the thinking process.  Thoughts may become more vague, or may even be an intuitive felt sense of something -- a knowing that does not get translated into words and concepts.  Allow this process of the changing experience of thoughts to happen. 
Sometimes you may experience a kind of dream-like state, somewhere between being asleep and awake.  This also is a natural experience in meditation.  There may also be times when there is a state of "no thought".  No matter what happens just take it easy -- take it as it comes!
It's enjoyable to meditate in a quiet place, but it is not always possible.  All of the meditations on our website can be done in a noisy environment.  The key is to not resist noise.  Don't try to ignore the noise or to block it out.  Simply let it be and continue with your meditation. 
Everything is a part of meditation -- the noise, your thoughts about it, the way the mind may start to resist it, the emotions that arise about it.  Treat everything that arises in meditation the same way -- let it be, let yourself be!
Falling asleep in meditation
Hopefully in meditation we enter a state of "non-resistance".  This would include not resisting sleep if it comes.  If we try to keep from falling asleep, we are straining.  The goal of meditation to establish a state of ease.  Therefore, if sleep comes, let it come. 
As the body relaxes, it will take the opportunity for sleep if it is needed.  If you find that you fall asleep frequently in meditation, it may mean that you need more sleep at night and is a good reminder to make sure you are getting enough rest.
Strong emotions 
When we enter into a state of relaxation in meditation, strong emotions can sometimes arise.  This can happen for several reasons.  When the mind settles down in meditation, we may become aware of an emotion that has been "under the surface" while we are busy in activity and focused on other things.  It may also be that the deep relaxation of meditation causes a kind of "unwinding" or purification, so that any emotion that has been held in the body is released.  The meditative state can be much like the dream state in which various issues are being processed.
If we are uncomfortable with a particular emotion, such as grief, the tendency may be to want to push it out.  Emotions are a flow of life energy, and if we resist that flow, the energy becomes "stuck".  If you notice resistance to emotions, let the resistance go.  Allow the emotion to be experienced fully and the energy of the emotion can flow and resolve. 
On the other hand, when a strong emotion arises, the mind may become very busy interpreting it or dramatizing it with a story about it.  If anger arises, for example, the mind might pick up on something that happened in the past, or imagine something happening now as the cause of the anger.  This involvement of the mind in the emotion intensifies and feeds it, and also obstructs it from moving through easily.  When we become aware of being caught up in a train of thought or a story, let that go and bring the awareness easily back to the focus of the meditation.  (The focus will depend on the meditation you are doing.)
If the emotion or thought is so strong that you cannot easily come back to your focus (such as the focus on the breath), then simply allow the mind to feel the emotion.  Let the awareness locate a physical sensation in the body that is associated with the strong emotion (or thought).  Simply continue to feel that sensation in the body.  With the awareness easily on the sensation, it will eventually dissolve and the mind will be free to continue with the focus of the meditation.
If the meditation process is difficult in any way, read our Difficulty Meditating page. 
Enjoy a Meditation Break now!


Meditation CDs

Many people find it easier to be guided in meditation -- and use of our CDs will make it easier to achieve a meditative state anytime.

Silence of Being CD
guides you in effortless meditation

Pure Relaxation CD
voice and music to relax by

Ease of Being CD
for centering and healing

Sleep Easy CD
guided meditation for sleep

Chakra Meditation
Chakra Dhyana CD
opens the chakras, raises kundalini energy

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